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Poor lads, desperately looking for love.. and a few thousand dollars. ok, forget the love bit, they'd probably just settle for the dollars.
Danie, the contributor of these IM logs, is just a normal person who loves chatting on the net and making new friends but she's not daft, not even the silver-tongued cavalier lads can pull the wool over her eyes. She doesn't start out to bait them but knows exactly whats going on...

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barry_antho (6:15:11 AM): hello
Danie (6:15:19 AM): hi
barry_antho (6:15:45 AM): sexy why you shy b4 me? [scammer referring to Danie's yahoo ID which has been edited for this page. IK]
Danie (6:16:00 AM): thats just who i am.
barry_antho (6:16:14 AM): common
barry_antho (6:16:25 AM): don't you know how much i care?
Danie (6:16:53 AM): no, i just started to talk with u remember
barry_antho (6:17:07 AM): it hurt me to see my heart desire to be shy b4 me
barry_antho (6:17:12 AM): yes
barry_antho (6:17:19 AM): but does that matter?
Danie (6:17:41 AM): i dont even know what u look like
barry_antho (6:18:56 AM): yes i know you don't
barry_antho (6:19:03 AM): but i will send you my pic
Danie (6:19:07 AM): when
barry_antho (6:19:36 AM): now
Danie (6:20:03 AM): ok
barry_antho (6:20:43 AM): why you removing my fallen heart?
Danie (6:21:07 AM): it freezes up my computer
barry_antho (6:21:33 AM): ok
Danie (6:21:43 AM): ty
barry_antho (6:21:56 AM): uw
Danie (6:23:21 AM): so where do u live again
barry_antho (6:23:55 AM): i live in africa
barry_antho (6:24:06 AM): did you get it?
barry_antho (6:24:13 AM): sent
barry_antho (6:24:17 AM): my pic
Danie (6:24:47 AM): i am going to go look at it now
barry_antho (6:25:00 AM): ok
Danie (6:26:02 AM): nice pic, u sure that is u.
[This photo is not the scammer, it's just a photo he's used for his story. It was most likely sent to him by a victim of another scam or he may have just found the photo on the web somewhere.

If anybody knows the person in the photo then please inform him that Nigerian criminals are using his photo and they may be attempting to scam him too.

Photo edited so it can't be lifted from here and used again. IK]
Danie (6:26:18 AM): just being a smart ass. sorry i will be good now
barry_antho (6:27:04 AM): why that question?
barry_antho (6:27:14 AM): what you mean i'm i sure is me?
Danie (6:27:17 AM): just being a smart ass sorry
Danie (6:27:55 AM): i was out all night i am tired and hung over, forgive me
barry_antho (6:28:31 AM): is alright
Danie (6:29:14 AM): so tell me more about yourself what u like to do, what your looking for
barry_antho (6:29:35 AM): i like to take good care of kid
barry_antho (6:30:15 AM): and like playing basketball walk on the beach etc
barry_antho (6:30:33 AM): and i'm looking for a nice beautiful sweet angel that will be my heart desire the one i will love forever till death do us part
Danie (6:30:57 AM): sounds very romantic
barry_antho (6:31:18 AM): ty
Danie (6:31:23 AM): yw
barry_antho (6:32:09 AM): ok
Danie (6:32:46 AM): have u been married before or have any kids
barry_antho (6:34:04 AM): no
barry_antho (6:34:06 AM): never
barry_antho (6:34:09 AM): and no kids
barry_antho (6:34:25 AM): been single and looking
barry_antho (6:34:32 AM): and you?
Danie (6:34:39 AM): i have been married 2 times, and have 2 kids, i cant have any more
barry_antho (6:35:00 AM): ok
barry_antho (6:35:30 AM): so you ready to come into my heart cos there is a special space for you to stay
Danie (6:36:20 AM): your a very sweet man, like i said i am shy, so lets just take it a bit slow for now ok, see where things go.
barry_antho (6:37:02 AM): pls i want to use this time to beg you not to be shy b4 me again
barry_antho (6:37:12 AM): so things can move on well with us
Danie (6:37:41 AM): whats your name
barry_antho (6:38:02 AM): anthony
barry_antho (6:38:05 AM): and you?
Danie (6:38:35 AM): Danielle
barry_antho (6:39:06 AM): is my pleasure meeting you sweet Danielle
Danie (6:39:17 AM): my pleasure meeting u as well.
Danie (6:39:23 AM): so are u from there or just there living
barry_antho (6:40:18 AM): ty
barry_antho (6:40:23 AM): no
barry_antho (6:40:28 AM): i'm from usa
Danie (6:40:38 AM): kool. so what are u doing over there
barry_antho (6:40:59 AM): is a long story
Danie (6:41:15 AM): well when ever u want to tell me feel free. are u ever coming back.
barry_antho (6:42:52 AM): yes
barry_antho (6:43:04 AM): first i was a kid when i lost my parents
Danie (6:44:08 AM): sorry to hear that hun
barry_antho (6:44:49 AM): ty
barry_antho (6:44:53 AM): :(
Danie (6:45:08 AM): will u be on later i need to shower and get some things done around the house today

barry_antho (9:02:35 AM): hello
Danie (9:02:54 AM): hi,
Danie (9:03:19 AM): please dont send the environments ok, it freezes my screen
barry_antho (9:03:20 AM): how are you doing today?
barry_antho (9:03:37 AM): ok
barry_antho (9:03:39 AM): sorry
barry_antho (9:04:20 AM): ij
barry_antho (9:04:23 AM): ok
barry_antho (9:04:25 AM): how was your easter holiday?
Danie (9:05:14 AM): i am ok, just tired, still not sleeping
Danie (9:05:20 AM): easter was ok. and yours
barry_antho (9:05:22 AM): why?
barry_antho (9:05:28 AM): it was cool
barry_antho (9:05:35 AM): i really enjoy it
barry_antho (9:05:38 AM): but not without you
barry_antho (9:05:39 AM): lol
Danie (9:07:14 AM): your so sweet
barry_antho (9:07:36 AM): ty
barry_antho (9:07:39 AM): i have mail for you
Danie (9:09:08 AM): really what mail.
barry_antho (9:09:14 AM): hold on
barry_antho (9:09:17 AM): is all about me
Danie (9:09:22 AM): ok

barry_antho (11:00:37 AM): hello
Danie (11:00:56 AM): brb phone
barry_antho (11:01:07 AM): ok
Danie (11:05:53 AM): ok, im back.
barry_antho (11:06:39 AM): uw
Danie (11:09:00 AM): im here,
barry_antho (11:10:13 AM): talk to me
Danie (11:10:22 AM): what do u want me to say.
barry_antho (11:10:58 AM): i want to say i want you
Danie (11:11:17 AM): u want to say u want me, or u want me to say i want u
barry_antho (11:11:48 AM): do you want me?
Danie (11:12:35 AM): i want to get to know u better.
barry_antho (11:12:52 AM): ok
Danie (11:15:26 AM): so why not come to the us
Danie (11:15:29 AM): U.S
barry_antho (11:16:25 AM): yes thats what i'm planing
barry_antho (11:16:32 AM): but i still need money
Danie (11:17:02 AM): true.
barry_antho (11:17:20 AM): yes
Danie (11:18:45 AM): i am here, stop buzzing me, lol. i didnt go anywhere,
barry_antho (11:19:02 AM): ok
barry_antho (11:19:04 AM): lol
barry_antho (11:19:11 AM): so are you on the wheel chair or what?
Danie (11:19:49 AM): no, im not, i still do most everything normal, just in alot of pain thru out the day.
barry_antho (11:20:16 AM): ok
Danie (11:21:11 AM): why .
barry_antho (11:22:36 AM): just want to know
Danie (11:23:14 AM): no, for the most part i am fine, just have to limit what i do and when i do it, no over doing myself, or the pain is 10 times worse than normal.
barry_antho (11:23:54 AM): ok
barry_antho (11:23:56 AM): i see
Danie (11:25:42 AM): anything else u want to know.
barry_antho (11:33:34 AM): mmmmmmmmmm
barry_antho (11:33:36 AM): so you live alone?
Danie (11:34:13 AM): no, my son lives with me, and my husband still has a room here since its his house, i just rent it from him with the condition he gets the spare room when hes in town.
barry_antho (11:35:42 AM): ok
barry_antho (11:35:52 AM): so if i relocate back to you where will i stay?
Danie (11:36:58 AM): i am hoping to have my own place again soon. just needed to stay here for a while i got some bills taken care of.
barry_antho (11:37:44 AM): you mean i will stay with you there?
Danie (11:38:30 AM): u can if u like, other wise i wouldnt know where u would stay
barry_antho (11:39:18 AM): ok
Danie (11:44:40 AM): what?
barry_antho (11:45:48 AM): can you send me your pic?
Danie (11:48:02 AM): theres a pic for ya.
barry_antho (11:49:14 AM): ok
Danie (11:50:38 AM): its a picture of me and my baby sister when she was 10 months old, she will be 3 years old in june, and i am trying to make dinner and do dishes too, so please dont buzz me, i will be back to answer what ever you say.
barry_antho (11:51:19 AM): ok
barry_antho (11:52:30 AM): omg
Danie (11:52:33 AM): what
barry_antho (11:52:36 AM): this is an angel
Danie (11:52:44 AM): which one u talking about
barry_antho (11:52:58 AM): your pic
Danie (11:53:14 AM): yeah there are 2 people in the pic though
barry_antho (11:54:24 AM): i know
barry_antho (11:54:32 AM): i'm talking about you
barry_antho (11:54:34 AM): you
Danie (11:56:17 AM): im no angel sweetie, far from it, but thank u
barry_antho (11:56:32 AM): you are to me
barry_antho (11:56:37 AM): sincerely speaking
Danie (11:56:54 AM): ty,
barry_antho (11:57:20 AM): uw
Danie (12:00:32 PM): here is a pic of my mom and us sisters.
barry_antho (12:01:56 PM): ok
barry_antho (12:08:53 PM): danielle who are all this?
Danie (12:10:56 PM): my mom, me and my sister and my best friend.
barry_antho (12:11:31 PM): mom is front
Danie (12:12:13 PM): yeah, friend is the one in the red, and my sister is the one with the grey and black shirt on.
barry_antho (12:13:51 PM): ok
Danie (12:14:35 PM): this pic is of my kids
barry_antho (12:15:02 PM): ok
Danie (12:15:29 PM): that way u know why my kids look like, so if u come here u know their faces
barry_antho (12:16:08 PM): ok
Danie (12:17:38 PM): anything else u want to know.
barry_antho (12:19:06 PM): yes
Danie (12:19:23 PM): just ask.
barry_antho (12:19:49 PM): ok
Danie (12:23:15 PM): guess u dont want to know much, lol u dont say much.
barry_antho (12:23:52 PM): omg
barry_antho (12:23:55 PM): this is nice beautiful kids
barry_antho (12:24:00 PM): >:D<:-*:x
Danie (12:24:01 PM): ty
barry_antho (12:25:39 PM): uw
Danie (12:29:08 PM): so where did u find me anyways
barry_antho (12:29:58 PM): in my heart
Danie (12:30:45 PM): no, not what i meant, i was wondering how u found me online.
barry_antho (12:31:27 PM): yes i a dating site
Danie (12:31:58 PM): do u remember which one.
barry_antho (12:32:26 PM): mmmmmmmmm
barry_antho (12:32:37 PM): i think l&l
barry_antho (12:33:19 PM): right?
Danie (12:33:38 PM): i think so, not sure, i have adds on a few sites, but closed most of them today.
barry_antho (12:34:24 PM): really
barry_antho (12:34:30 PM): you closed them for me?
Danie (12:35:06 PM): i didnt close them for anyone, just got tired of looking.
barry_antho (12:35:28 PM): ok
Danie (12:35:49 PM): i like to see where things will go, but you have to do more talking, cant have a one sided conversation, i am shy too.
barry_antho (12:36:31 PM): lol
barry_antho (12:36:54 PM): you don't have to be i told you this b4
barry_antho (12:37:02 PM): with me feel free
Danie (12:37:25 PM): i understand that, and just because u say i dont have to be is not going to change the fact that i am, its part of who i am,
barry_antho (12:37:48 PM): ok
barry_antho (12:37:50 PM): lol
Danie (12:38:20 PM): i have always been shy with someone i dont know, until i get to know that person and i am comfortable with them.
barry_antho (12:39:15 PM): ok
Danie (12:43:11 PM): well i am going to go make my bed, i will be back.
barry_antho (12:43:49 PM): ok
barry_antho (12:43:51 PM): where is your cam?
barry_antho (12:48:53 PM): hey
Danie (12:52:41 PM): what
barry_antho (12:53:43 PM): is the bed ready?
barry_antho (12:53:47 PM): lol
Danie (12:55:03 PM): no. got to go for now
barry_antho (12:55:34 PM): hey
barry_antho (12:55:36 PM): you gone?
barry_antho (12:55:48 PM): why you just leave me here like that?
Danie (12:56:35 PM): sorry, i need to go lay down, for one, and i did say i had to go, so i didnt just leave u there alone
barry_antho (12:56:55 PM): ok
barry_antho (12:56:59 PM): i love you
Danie (12:57:56 PM): why do u say u love me, u barely know me.
barry_antho (12:58:11 PM): yes
barry_antho (12:58:27 PM): it comes from deep down my heart and i can't hold it so i have to tell you
barry_antho (1:00:05 PM): ok
Danie (1:00:22 PM): why. u dont even know me.
barry_antho (1:00:46 PM): yes i do
barry_antho (1:00:51 PM): my heart does
barry_antho (1:01:00 PM): ok
Danie (1:02:48 PM): i dont believe in love
barry_antho (1:02:59 PM): omg
barry_antho (1:03:02 PM): why?
barry_antho (1:03:05 PM): damn
barry_antho (1:03:17 PM): so you mean i'm a fool falling for you?
Danie (1:03:38 PM): why would u fall for someone u never seen or been with
barry_antho (1:03:50 PM): doesn't mattert
barry_antho (1:03:53 PM): matter
Danie (1:03:58 PM): night\

barry_antho (9:17:37 AM): hello
Danie (9:17:57 AM): hello
barry_antho (9:18:14 AM): how are you
Danie (9:18:37 AM): i am sore, just came in from doing yard work.
barry_antho (9:18:52 AM): sorry dear
Danie (9:19:14 AM): for what
barry_antho (9:19:28 AM): sore?
Danie (9:19:43 AM): no biggie, not like anyone else around here is going to do it for me.
barry_antho (9:19:57 AM): ok
Danie (9:20:47 AM): so why did u send me that e mail
barry_antho (9:21:02 AM): so you can know about me
Danie (9:21:36 AM): oh, ok.
barry_antho (9:21:51 AM): ok
Danie (9:22:55 AM): just was wondering
barry_antho (9:23:02 AM): ok
barry_antho (9:23:07 AM): did you read it?
Danie (9:23:26 AM): yes i read it.
barry_antho (9:23:51 AM): and did you feel me?
Danie (9:24:14 AM): did i feel u??
barry_antho (9:24:41 AM): yes
barry_antho (9:24:54 AM): want to know if you understand the mail?
Danie (9:25:07 AM): yes i understand the e mail.
Danie (9:25:22 AM): just not sure why you told me thats all. or why you picked me to tell.
barry_antho (9:25:23 AM): ok
barry_antho (9:25:43 AM): cos my heart desire you so well
Danie (9:26:23 AM): i am a poor woman, who is partially disabled, and u desire me. #-0
barry_antho (9:27:17 AM): yes
Danie (9:28:15 AM): i guess i dont understand why u would want a poor woman who cant work .
barry_antho (9:28:19 AM): yes i do
barry_antho (9:28:32 AM): cos she will be honest with me
barry_antho (9:28:37 AM): in all we do
Danie (9:29:17 AM): oh, ok.
barry_antho (9:30:32 AM): ok
Danie (9:32:34 AM): i am sorry to hear about your wife passing away.


30 March 2005
Danie (2:38:30 AM): ok, i will check my e mail and see what ya sent me. hope u have a great day
Wed, 30 Mar 2005 15:24:46 -0800 (PST)
From: "anthony barry" <barry_antho@yahoo.com>
Subject: CAN I TRUST YOU ?
To: ########@yahoo.com
sweetie,
    MY NAME IS BARRY ANTHONY,I GREW UP AT 341 SLEEY HOLLOW DRIVE FRANKLIN PA WITH MY MOTHER, HELEN BARRY, MY DAD WAS HARDLY EVERHOME DUE TO THE FACT THAT HE WAS MARRIED TO ANOTHER WOMAN. MY MOTHER WAS THE SECOND WIFE AND WAS NOT OFFICAILLLY MARRIED TO MY DAD. MY DAD LOVED ME SO MUCH AND HE REALLY WANTED TO MARRY MY MOTHER BUT THINGS WERE SO HARD FOR HIM IN HIS PERSONAL LIFE.

MY DAD WAS A RICH MAN FROM A VERY WEALTHY BACKGROUND, HE WAS A VERY HARDWORKING MAN AND HE NEVER JOKED WITH HIS JOB IN ANY WAY.I GREW UP WITHOUT SEEING MUCH OF MY FATHER AND I DID NOT KNOW WHAT FATHERLY LOVE REALLY MEANT.

WHAT I WANT OUT OF LIFE NOW IS TO DO WHAT MY DAD FAILED TO DO FOR MY MOTHER.THAT IS CORRECT HIS MISTAKES BY BEING A GOOD HUSBAND TO MY WIFE AND LOVING MY WIFE WITH ALL MY HEART AND ALL MY SOUL. THIS WOULD HAVE BEEN POSSIBLE IF NOT FOR THE UNTIMELY DEATH OF MY WIFE LEAH 10 YEARS AGO. EVER SINCE THE DEATH OF LEAH(MY WIFE). I HAVE REMAINED SINGLE.

NOW I HAVE DECIDED TO GET MARRIED TO SOMEONE AND THAT SOMEONE IS SOMEONE THAT WILL LET ME LOVE HER THE WAY I LOVED MY WIFE OR EVEN MORE.

I AM AN INDOOR PERSON I LOVE TO SWIMM READ AND I LOVE PETS A LOT I LOVE TO WATCH MOVIES AND I AM A VERY GENTLE AND CARING MAN. I AM MATURED IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS, AND I CONSIDER MY SELF A DECENT MAN. I LOVE TO TRUST SOMEONE AND I LOVE TO BE TRUSTED TOO.

I USE TO WORK AT MY DADS COMPANY UNTIL THE TIME OF HIS DEATH.NOW THAT HE IS DEAD AM RETIRED FOR SOME REASON BEYOND MY CONTROL..........

I REALLY WANT TO COME TO YOUR CITY AND LIVE THERE WITH YOU FOR EVER, THE REASON I WILL EXPLAIN IN MY NEXT EMAIL.......

LOVE IS WHAT WE WANT IT TO BE AND HOW WE CHOOSE IT TO BE .WE CAN MAKE LOVE GROW BETWEEN US IN A VERY SWEET WAY.IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOU MY SWEET THING.

Love and courthship has so many things,there must be trust love mutual respect and there must be no secrets. as you well know about my past pains and heart breaks concerning my father. though he was not what he should be but he left me a will in ENGLAND $35,000,000 us dollars in a security company. this may sould to good to be real and you will be wondering why am telling you this but i want you to know all there is to know about my affairs monetarily.

You see the said funds origianally belonged to my late father who served as company president before his death, but he died last year . Before the death of my late father ,he secretly kept $35. Million United States Dollars in a security company in Europe on my name for onward Investment after retirement but untimely death took him away,he had told me this and I have documents to prove this. Now ,as a matter of fact ,the rest of the family has taken over the whole property leaving nothing behind for me because my mother was not legally married to him,therefore his family rejected me as a son .Unfortunately,my mother gave us the ghost during a breast cancer operation now I am all alone.

all i have in the whole world is me and who ever decides to marry me.

AM IN AFRICA AT THE MOMENT DUE TO THE FACT THAT MY STEP BROTHERS AND STEP FAMILY HATE ME AND THEY WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH ME AM STAYING AT A FRIENDS PLACE IN AFRICA PRESENTLY AND HE IS TRYING TO HELP ME RAISE MONEY TO GO TO ENGLAND SO THAT I CAN GET THE WILL CLEARED. 20,000 US DOLLARS IS WHAT AM TO PAY THE SECURITY COMPANY IN ENGLAND BEFORE THE MONEY IS CLEARED MY FRIENS HER IN AFRICA IS HELPING ME.

I NEED YOUR LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP, THAT IS WHY I SENT A MESSEGE TO YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE.

AM LONELY AND I NEED A SOULMATE.
WILL YOU LOVE ME?
WILL YOU PROMISE ME, NEVER TO HURT ME OR MAKE ME SAD?
PLEASE CAN I TRUST YOU, EVEN AS I HAVE SUCH HUGE MEONEY WILLED TO ME.

PLEASE REPLY THIS EMAIL AND TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK

PLEASE YOU CAN REACH ME ON PHONE IN AFRICA ON THIS NUMBER,

BARRY ANTHONY.... 234--80--28318118

Danie (3:16:47 AM): HI Nathoney, i got your email, and thank u for telling me about yourself .I myself have been poor my whole life and work hard for what I have, I am currently married but am not happy in my marriage. I have 5 brothers and 2 sisters, and have had 2 step parents from both of my parents. I am not sure what it is you want from me, so if you could actually say what it is you want from me, that would be helpful in many ways. My trust has been broken so many times its hard for me to trust anyways, specially right off the bat, I hope you understand that .just be patient

Danie (2:49:37 PM): what
barry_antho (2:50:45 PM): so you are there and you don't want to talk to me
Danie (2:51:05 PM): im on the phone
barry_antho (2:51:11 PM): ok
Danie (3:04:58 PM): ok im back.
barry_antho (3:05:18 PM): ok
barry_antho (3:05:21 PM): uw
Danie (3:06:00 PM): so talk to me.
barry_antho (3:06:13 PM): yes
barry_antho (3:06:17 PM): i said i desire ypu
barry_antho (3:06:19 PM): you
barry_antho (3:06:24 PM): where is your cam?
Danie (3:07:07 PM): my cam dont work.
barry_antho (3:07:22 PM): why?
Danie (3:08:11 PM): my computer and my cam both hate me and each other, i use the cam, it shut my computer down.
barry_antho (3:08:33 PM): oh dear
Danie (3:10:30 PM): yeah its a big pain in the arse
barry_antho (3:10:44 PM): i see
barry_antho (3:10:53 PM): so people don't see your cam?
Danie (3:11:32 PM): no, no one sees my cam, why
barry_antho (3:11:56 PM): cos i love to see the angel i'm talking with now
Danie (3:13:41 PM): i understand, i wish i could see u too.
barry_antho (3:14:10 PM): sorry i don't have it
barry_antho (3:14:12 PM): i know
Danie (3:14:39 PM): its ok, do u have any more pics of yourself
barry_antho (3:14:58 PM): no
Danie (3:16:28 PM): bummer.
barry_antho (3:17:08 PM): what?
Danie (3:17:42 PM): that you dont have any more pics of yourself
barry_antho (3:18:00 PM): yes
barry_antho (3:19:43 PM): brb
barry_antho (3:19:46 PM): a min pls
barry_antho (3:19:47 PM): ok
Danie (3:19:48 PM): k
barry_antho (3:19:59 PM): need to restart this computer
barry_antho (3:20:03 PM): ok
Danie (3:20:10 PM): ok, i will be here for a few more minutes

Danie (4:07:06 AM): its not that i dont believe in love or falling in love, its just that i have heard everything from will u marry me to disgusting comments on here from all kinds of guys, and I dont know you other than on here, I told you in the one im that i have a very hard time with trust, specially with people on here. i love talking to people and i am as real as a person gets because i dont lie about who i am or what i look like. but most people do. i find the picture that you sent me to be very attractive, so if you would still like to get to know me and talk with me on here i would like that, but please dont use the 'i love you' for a while ok. makes me nervous. have a great day sweetie.


barry_antho (10:11:08 AM): hello
Danie (10:12:01 AM): hi there
barry_antho (10:12:18 AM): how are you doing today?
Danie (10:12:56 AM): ok, just got told that i will have to have surgery on my knee, how are u
barry_antho (10:13:36 AM): i'm fine
barry_antho (10:13:44 AM): what happened to your knee?
Danie (10:13:44 AM): sorry about last night,
barry_antho (10:13:53 AM): is alright
Danie (10:14:19 AM): i used to wrestle in jr high, and i was on the basket ball team as well, hurt it alot, was in an accident a few years ago, and smashed it up good.
Danie (10:14:33 AM): no its not, i should have stayed and explained myself at least
barry_antho (10:15:14 AM): ok
Danie (10:16:52 AM): i really dont know how to explain it, other than your not the first guy on here to tell me that, but all of them were just messing with me, and now i have hard time trusting anyone when it comes to saying those words. and i have a hard time with someone falling in love with another person they have never met, and just started talking with, yes you like me alot , i gather that, thats fine, just confused on the rest.
barry_antho (10:17:46 AM): why you confused?
Danie (10:18:10 AM): cus i dont understand why u said that last night when u dont even know me, and u have never met me.
barry_antho (10:19:20 AM): yes i know
barry_antho (10:19:28 AM): but deep in my heart i do
Danie (10:19:42 AM): how can u say that and not have met me,
barry_antho (10:21:09 AM): ok
barry_antho (10:21:10 AM): i see
Danie (10:22:06 AM): i guess i am a sceptic when it comes to that i am sorry, and no your not a fool. ok,
Danie (10:24:09 AM): u back now
barry_antho (10:25:38 AM): yes
Danie (10:27:03 AM): so why dont u say much.
barry_antho (10:28:29 AM): cos my heart is hurt
Danie (10:29:22 AM): i am sorry i didnt mean to hurt u. i really didnt
barry_antho (10:29:35 AM): is ok
Danie (10:30:28 AM): no its not, i dont like to hurt anyone, and i didnt mean to hurt u.
barry_antho (10:31:42 AM): :((
barry_antho (10:31:48 AM): do you think is easy to fall in love?
Danie (10:34:04 AM): no i dont think it is, took me 6 years to tell the only man i ever actually fell in love with how i felt about him, 2 years after that he left havent heard from him in 3 years now.
Danie (10:34:17 AM): he lives in saginaw, and i live in tuscola co.
barry_antho (10:35:03 AM): so do you know if i'm the blessing the Lord as sent to you?
Danie (10:36:28 AM): i dont know, thats why i asked u why u said u loved me last night.
barry_antho (10:37:01 AM): cos my heart desire you
Danie (10:37:16 AM): so how did u get from PA to africa.
barry_antho (10:37:40 AM): is a long story
barry_antho (10:37:47 AM): i will mail you now
barry_antho (10:37:55 AM): give me your id ?
Danie (10:38:08 AM): ########@yahoo.com
barry_antho (10:38:27 AM): ok
Danie (10:49:58 AM): yes, i am here, didnt go anywhere was waiting for u to say something
barry_antho (10:50:42 AM): ok
Danie (11:03:00 AM): u already sent me that letter sweetie. so what has that have to do with me trusting u when your not here to be with me, for me to get to know in person and you me
barry_antho (1:02:48 PM): yes i know
barry_antho (1:03:08 PM): thats why i sent you so you can know i love her
barry_antho (1:03:11 PM): you
Danie (1:03:59 PM): i just dont understand why u say u love me, or why u love me when u dont know me. thats all. i didnt say you coudlnt
barry_antho (1:04:34 PM): why i love you is that you are from deep down my heart
Danie (1:05:52 PM): ok. just cant figure out why i guess.
Danie (1:09:45 PM): see your not talking again.
Danie (1:10:01 PM): how am i supposed to get to know u or feel comfortable with u when u dont say anything.

03 April 2005
barry_antho (12:42:36 PM): hello
Danie (12:42:43 PM): hi
barry_antho (12:42:53 PM): how are you doing today/
Danie (12:43:19 PM): im doing good and u
barry_antho (12:43:27 PM): I"M FINE
barry_antho (12:43:28 PM): TY
barry_antho (12:43:42 PM): UW
Danie (12:44:15 PM): so what are u up to today
barry_antho (12:44:24 PM): missed you
barry_antho (12:44:29 PM): looking to talk with you
barry_antho (12:44:38 PM): cos i need to know you more
Danie (12:45:02 PM): u need to know me more huh, what made u think that. lol
barry_antho (12:45:13 PM): lol
Danie (12:45:48 PM): what would u like to know
barry_antho (12:46:53 PM): tell me i need you in my life
Danie (12:47:37 PM): why do u need me in your life, i dont see how thats possible right now, your there and i am here. and besides you wouldnt want to raise other mens babies would u.
barry_antho (12:47:57 PM): yes i will
barry_antho (12:48:01 PM): cos i love kids
barry_antho (12:48:12 PM): cos my heart desire you
Danie (12:48:20 PM): even if i was pregnant now u would want to raise another mans child.
barry_antho (12:48:55 PM): YES OFCOURSE
barry_antho (12:49:18 PM): cos i love kids and i know you will give me mine too
Danie (12:49:52 PM): how will i give u yours when you're there.
barry_antho (12:50:27 PM): i'm relocating back to you soon
barry_antho (12:50:39 PM): so that's why i need you more
Danie (12:51:59 PM): when are u relocating back to here
barry_antho (12:52:08 PM): soon
Danie (12:52:15 PM): told u not to buzz me, i cant hear it anyways, have no speakers
barry_antho (12:52:16 PM): butr first i need to go to uk
Danie (12:52:21 PM): the UK.
barry_antho (12:52:28 PM): i have my will there to receive
barry_antho (12:52:39 PM): ok
barry_antho (12:52:41 PM): sorry
Danie (12:52:46 PM): oh, ok.
barry_antho (12:53:10 PM): yes
barry_antho (12:53:36 PM): yes
Danie (12:54:02 PM): are u going to be able to get your fathers money or no.
barry_antho (12:54:29 PM): yes if i get myself together
barry_antho (12:54:37 PM): are you pregnant?
barry_antho (12:55:00 PM): honey
Danie (12:55:06 PM): yes i am, just found out last week that i was.
barry_antho (12:55:17 PM): thats good
barry_antho (12:55:27 PM): how many months?
Danie (12:55:33 PM): 2
barry_antho (12:55:46 PM): have you tell the father?
Danie (12:56:22 PM): yes told him.
barry_antho (12:56:23 PM): hello
barry_antho (12:56:29 PM): oh dear
barry_antho (12:56:46 PM): why did you tell me b4 you tell him?
Danie (12:56:55 PM): i already told him. he dont care
barry_antho (12:57:02 PM): really
barry_antho (12:57:11 PM): can you wait for me
barry_antho (12:57:18 PM): honey i need the baby
Danie (12:57:30 PM): why do u need the baby
barry_antho (12:57:54 PM): cos i need a baby to call my name
barry_antho (12:58:12 PM): children are blessing from God
Danie (12:58:23 PM): yes they are most of the time. lol
barry_antho (12:58:36 PM): lol
barry_antho (12:58:50 PM): so will you give the baby my name?
Danie (12:59:34 PM): depends on if we are married or not before the baby comes. otherwise i will give it my maiden name especially if its a boy
barry_antho (1:00:15 PM): whats your maiden name?
Danie (1:00:26 PM): Smith
barry_antho (1:00:34 PM): wow
barry_antho (1:00:41 PM): thats my other name
barry_antho (1:00:45 PM): lol
Danie (1:00:51 PM): your other name, how many names do u have
barry_antho (1:01:14 PM): i'm anthony smith barry
Danie (1:01:29 PM): oh, ok.
barry_antho (1:01:36 PM): yes
Danie (1:02:07 PM): you would have to ask the elders about that then.
barry_antho (1:02:37 PM): what elder?
Danie (1:03:25 PM): i am half american indian, and i have to do what the elders tell me to do as far as my sons go.
barry_antho (1:03:41 PM): ok
Danie (1:03:59 PM): do u really understand
barry_antho (1:04:05 PM): yes i do
Danie (1:05:23 PM): r u ok with that
barry_antho (1:05:34 PM): i'm alright
barry_antho (1:06:57 PM): When I see you, the world stops as if the only purpose in life was for me to please you
Danie (1:07:06 PM): ok, just making sure, cus if i were to get married again before the baby comes they would be ok with giving the baby your last name, and your being brought into the family. also would have to have an indian wedding ceremony, and u cant ever get a divorce when you have one of those.
barry_antho (1:08:36 PM): alright
Danie (1:09:02 PM): u dont sound ok with it.
barry_antho (1:09:34 PM): i do
Danie (1:10:50 PM): u do what
barry_antho (1:11:06 PM): i understand you well
barry_antho (1:11:14 PM): but with all i still love you
Danie (1:11:33 PM): all of what.
Danie (1:13:22 PM): did u leave me again. tell me more about how much u want to love me and be with me
barry_antho (1:13:44 PM): I LOVE TO BE WITH YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL
barry_antho (1:13:51 PM): never to let you go
Danie (1:14:08 PM): what makes me so special to u, that you just know i am the one for u
barry_antho (1:15:12 PM): cos i felt it in my heart
Danie (1:15:42 PM): what did u think when u first saw my picture on 'large and lovely'
barry_antho (1:17:04 PM): wow
barry_antho (1:17:08 PM): my heart fell for you
barry_antho (1:17:24 PM): so thats why i sat down i think of that mail i sent you
Danie (1:18:40 PM): well that was very sweet of u, so what did u think when i told u i was pregnant with another mans baby. i need to know so i can learn to trust you so when we are together. i know who i am loving.
barry_antho (1:20:03 PM): i was happy when you told me he refused to collect it
Danie (1:20:14 PM): collect it,
Danie (1:20:24 PM): thats a strange way of saying accepting his child
barry_antho (1:20:58 PM): yes it is
barry_antho (1:21:05 PM): he never value the baby
barry_antho (1:21:59 PM): In my thoughts of you there is an underlying love that is present in every word, every glimpse I hope you feel it as I do, for it is what I am and ever I will be
Danie (1:22:09 PM): he dont want children and he wont be a apart of its life, my ex-husband wants to claim it as his, but i said no.
barry_antho (1:23:06 PM): will you keep it for me?
Danie (1:24:18 PM): keep what, the baby, not sure, i dont have the money to raise another child alone. already did that with 2 of them, gave one up when i was 16 cus i was too young
barry_antho (1:24:42 PM): ok
barry_antho (1:24:51 PM): but i will go get my money in uk
Danie (1:25:50 PM): what does that have to do with me keeping my baby. i cant afford to keep a child right now to raise another child without a father. my mother made me give my first child up. and i know he has a good life now and he has both parents to love him.
barry_antho (1:27:06 PM): i will stand by you
Danie (1:27:35 PM): how when you're there, i dont want to be alone raising another child i cant afford to care for.
barry_antho (1:29:06 PM): i told you i need to go to uk to get the money i have there and come to you from uk
Danie (1:30:12 PM): its not even your child and u would raise it as your own
barry_antho (1:30:37 PM): yes i will
barry_antho (1:30:47 PM): cos i will take it like mine
Danie (1:32:31 PM): why would u do that
barry_antho (1:32:43 PM): cos i need a kid
Danie (1:32:51 PM): why do u need a kid
barry_antho (1:33:02 PM): omg
barry_antho (1:33:07 PM): why do we need kids
barry_antho (1:33:20 PM): is bcos you can be happy in life
Danie (1:34:46 PM): not really i think some people can be happy without kids.
barry_antho (1:35:24 PM): not me
barry_antho (1:35:30 PM): me i'm happy with kids
Danie (1:36:03 PM): well thats good, how about i just give the baby to u and u can raise it.
Danie (1:36:05 PM): lol
barry_antho (1:36:17 PM): yes
barry_antho (1:36:21 PM): thats even better
Danie (1:36:39 PM): why is that even better, u dont want a wife, u just want a baby
barry_antho (1:38:03 PM): i want you too
Danie (1:38:41 PM): u just said it would be even better to have me give u my baby so u can raise it. sounds to me like u dont want me, just my baby,
barry_antho (1:39:37 PM): i want both you and the bay
barry_antho (1:39:39 PM): baby
Danie (1:39:44 PM): why
barry_antho (1:39:53 PM): cos i love you
barry_antho (1:40:18 PM): ok
Danie (1:40:25 PM): those are only words, prove it to me by your actions.
barry_antho (1:40:27 PM): and don't want to losse you
barry_antho (1:40:33 PM): ok
barry_antho (1:40:38 PM): give me your phonbe number
Danie (1:41:17 PM): i need to go take a shower, the babies dad just called he wants to talk.
barry_antho (1:41:46 PM): ok
barry_antho (1:42:01 PM): so pls give me your number so i can call you
Danie (1:42:24 PM): why do u want to call me
barry_antho (1:42:52 PM): so i can hear your sweet angel voice
barry_antho (1:43:20 PM): ok
Danie (1:43:25 PM): well i dont think i am ready for that yet, im still very confused .
barry_antho (1:43:45 PM): how you confused?
Danie (1:44:54 PM): i dont understand how someone can love someone they havent met, or want to be with them, and raise their child as their own. all that stuff. i have had 3 children and the fathers left and walked away. i couldnt do that myself. but i cant afford to raise another baby alone.
barry_antho (1:45:19 PM): we need to talk more
Danie (1:45:28 PM): why
barry_antho (1:45:45 PM): are you going to be on later today
Danie (1:46:14 PM): i dont know, i have been very sick the last few days.
barry_antho (1:46:50 PM): sorry dear
Danie (1:47:05 PM): for what u didnt do anything
barry_antho (1:47:17 PM): cos you are sick
Danie (1:47:50 PM): just cus i am pregnant, i get so sick every time i am going to have a baby, i am sick almost the whole time i am pregnant.
Danie (1:48:02 PM): so dont be sorry it wasnt u that was inside of me and got me pregnant
barry_antho (1:48:09 PM): alright
Danie (1:49:03 PM): alright what
barry_antho (1:49:45 PM): alright with me
Danie (1:50:01 PM): whats alright with u, u lost me
barry_antho (1:50:21 PM): no
Danie (1:50:48 PM): not that way, just confused as to what your talking about